September 20, 2018

Healthier Ways To Manage Your Money

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Managing your money is a 24/7 job. If you want to protect your finances then you need to keep on top of your income and outgoings, as we’ll discuss in this article. It’s very important to have a financial plan in place to ensure that you never have to worry about money. After all, money shouldn’t be the primary focus in life. Once you become a master of financial management, you can finally stop worrying about where your savings are going. Here are some healthier ways to manage your money.

Budgeting yourself.
One of the simplest and most effective ways to manage your money responsibly is to regularly track your income and expenditures. Your income is probably fixed (although it could vary if you take on board the advice in the next point), but your expenses might fluctuate from month to month. The best way to ensure you know where your money is going to start budgeting yourself. Start off with your basic costs because they’re probably relatively fixed (unless you do a lot more driving or use a lot more electricity on a particular month).

Once you’ve calculated how much money you need to set aside for the essentials, you’ll know how much remains for non-essentials. But you might want to start putting some of that excess income into your savings account so that you’re prepared for the future. It’s always smart to think ahead when it comes to managing your money. And, as for your basic expenses, you might be able to reduce those in smart ways, too. You could save money on energy by insulating your windows, and you could save money on gas by limiting your car usage as much as possible; walk or cycle to town instead. It’ll be good for your health.

Investing your money intelligently.
Rather than spending your money on things that add nothing to your life, you should aim to invest it in ways that could increase your overall wealth and provide a better financial future for you and your family. You might want to learn about spreadbetting if you’re looking for a good investment opportunity. Doing your research to learn about the workings of the market could really help you to make educated decisions as to how you should use your money. Investing can bring in new sources of income, increase your wealth, and help you improve your financial situation. As long as you don’t jump into opportunities without considering the latest market trends, you should be able to make sizeable returns on your investments.

Keeping on top of debt.
Not all debt is avoidable. Many people borrow money to put themselves through college or to afford the down deposit on their first houses. But the important thing is that you don’t take on too much debt. The best way to manage your money effectively is to pay off your debt in regular installments. As mentioned on this site in the past, debt should be avoided (wherever possible), but the crucial thing is that any debt you do accumulate is paid off on time. Don’t borrow money that you can’t afford to pay back. The rest of the financial advice in this article should help you if you’re struggling to cover your costs. In particular, the previous point should have given you some helpful pointers to boost your disposable income if your bank account is often quite empty after the bills have been paid.

September 07, 2018

Improving Your Sense of Wellbeing With a New Exercise Regime

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We are all well aware that we need to maintain a thorough exercise regime in order to keep ourselves in peak physical condition. This is why we all try to fit at least 150 minutes of moderate aerobic exercise, or 75 minutes of vigorous aerobic exercise, into our weekly routines and regimes. But did you ever consider how exercise can affect your overall sense of wellbeing? Nowadays, we are becoming increasingly aware of the importance of our mental health and emotional wellbeing, and exercise is a brilliant way to improve your overall mood. If you feel that your current exercise regime isn’t ticking all of your boxes when it comes to maintaining a good quality of life on an emotional or mental level, here are a few different regimes that you might want to try out instead!

The Gym

The gym is an easy form of exercise to get yourself involved with. You don’t have to rely on the presence of anyone else and many gyms are now open twenty four hours a day, seven days a week, which allows you to head to the establishment and exercise as and when you please. There also tends to be a wide range of equipment on offer, meaning that you can exercise in a wide variety of ways in a small space. One day you can focus on your arms, the next your legs, the next your core. The exercise, in general, has been found to alleviate symptoms of anxiety and depression. It also gives you an escape from the worries and stresses of your day to day life, providing you with a period where you can put your phone aside, focus on a given activity, and avoid any unrelated distractions.


Team sports are brilliant for lifting your mood. So, let’s focus on basketball Why? Well, not only does the exercise itself benefit you in the way mentioned above, but seeing as it is a team sport, it encourages you to socialise and communicate effectively with others. It’s a great way to instill a little team spirit into your life, and to make new friends who you might not have ever met in any other social situation in your life. You can just throw on your basketball uniforms and head to the court. What’s more? Once you know the rules of the game, you can head to the pub or another meeting place and watch professional matches together on the television. This is a great way of mixing sport with social interaction!

Trial and Error

Different sports and regimes will prove preferable to different people. So, take on the mindset of trial and error and don’t feel like you have to stick with anything that you’re uncomfortable with. You will find something that suits you down to a tee eventually!

As you can see, exercise can prove beneficial to you in more ways than working you out physically. Give the above options a chance and you should find your sense of wellbeing improving in next to no time!

September 06, 2018

Money Management the Christian Way

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You might think that money and your faith have very little to do with one another apart from maybe donating a little to your church and a chosen charity each month, but you would be quite wrong. The bible actually has quite a lot to say about money and its management and by following its teachings on the subject, you can take better control of your finances and develop a much healthier relationship with money…

All Things Come from and Belong to God

The first thing you need to know is that everything we have here on earth comes from God and all of our posessions belong to him. When you begin to view money in this way, it can help to relieve some of your anxiety around your finances, because you will come to realize that everything is unfolding as it should do and that your money is never really yours - not completely anyway. Obviously, we all need a certain amount of money to get by and we must all work hard and make good decision in our financial life, but ultimately God can look after our money much better than we can and giving it up to him, looking to him for advice and acting more mindfully around money will help us to have a far better relationship with it.

Debt is to Be Avoided

Most Americans are managing at least a small amount of debt, so there is no need to feel embarrassed or ashamed if you too have racked up debt. However, it is worth noting that the bible is very clear on the fact that God does not want people to be in debt. Quotes like Romans 13:8: "Owe no man anything, but to love one another" and Proverbs 22:7 which states that borrowers are servants to those who lend them money make it very clear that debt is not ideal. So, if you’re currently in debt, see what you can do to get out of it fast; that could mean getting a debt consolidation loan on the web, talking to a debt counselor to help you come up with a plan, or simply tweaking your budget so that you can clear your credit card balance a little quicker. Once your debt is gone, do whatever you can to avoid putting yourself in that position again, but know that if there are emergencies and it is unavoidable, that you will not be judged harshly and you can always get back to a place of no debt again with the right effort.

Being Rich is Not the Ultimate Goal

A lot of people make a lot of bad decisions and do things that are less than kind and respectable in order to make more money and get as rich as they can. Although it is fine to work hard and enjoy the fruits of your labor, the bible is clear that the love of money is the root of many evils and that going after wealth above all else is a bad idea. Knowing this is so helpful in life because it allows you to take the pressure off and pursue forms of work that you enjoy and which serve others, if you want to, rather than those which will make you money, but also bring unhappiness and compromise to your life. It also helps us to better appreciate exactly what we do have, which is certainly the route to greater happiness here on earth.

Greed is Not Good

There are countless people who would strongly disagree with this statement, but from the Christian perspective, there is nothing good about greed. There are countless bible verses that talk about the importance of charity, which show just how important it is to use your money for good. It is really helpful to give a percentage of whatever you have to those in need. Not only does it show you how abundant you really are, but it also helps others, and it makes you think more about money, what it is, how it is and should one used and how much you really need to be happy, which can help to prevent you from getting into debt or going after more money at the expense of everything else in your life.

That is not to say that you should not save money for a rainy day. It is important that everyone, even Christians, save enough money for emergencies, so that they do not end up getting into debt and so that it is possible to look after oneself and one’s family, as well as the wider community. So, do open a savings account, but be as generous as you can with your money too.

Money is Not God

A lot of people in the 21st Century seem to almost worship money, They judge others and themselves, not on their character or their good deeeds, but on how much money they have in the bank. The bible is very clear that this is wrong; it says that you cannot serve God and mammon. What does this mean in practical terms? That money is a tool just like any other, and although it is pretty impossible to function without it in the modern world, you should not look at it as anything more than a tool like a hammer or a screwdriver. Or is nothing special and you should not elevate its status. It is worshipping money that leads to people being reckless, wracking up credit card debts, working themselves into the ground, lying and stealing to get more and that is one of the worst things anyone can do.

The Bottom Line

The bible has a lot to say about money, but its primary message is that we should not get caught up in the pursual of riches. We should not get into debt or put ourselves into compromising situations for it. We should be careful with money, work for what we have and be generous where we can. This will lead to a healthy relationship with our finances.

September 04, 2018

Why We Need To Treat Staff Better

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When you’re in business, there’s a lot you have to cope with, especially on the shop floor. You have customers milling in and out, you have shelves to keep stocked and sorted, and you’ve got your staff to look out for. Your staff are the backbone of your business, the ones who keep it turning when you can’t; because of this, they need to come first in your business plan. 

If you’re someone who’s looking to start a business, or you’re putting together your first payroll, or you’re just someone who’s looking to make better office relations a couple years into it, here’s the tips you need for making sure your staff are always treated properly. 

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Good Relations = Good Atmosphere

This equation will always be relevant to a workplace, no matter the work they do inside it. As long as you’ve got some good relations amongst your workstaff, you’re going to have a much more positive feeling whenever you walk into work in the morning. And then there’s the idea that you could even start to make some friends; just because you’re the boss doesn’t mean you can’t be approachable! 

People such as Yvonne Yancy strive to promote this side of the HR department, as it’s very clear to experts that always having a positive office atmosphere, and clear boundaries with your staff, is the most effective way to succeed at business. You don’t want your internal relations bouncing around all the time - it’s a killer for productivity! So make sure you’ve always got ice breaking activities whenever someone new starts, that your staff are never in rivalry with each other (friendly competition is just fine, however), and that you’re never playing favorites. 

It Makes for a Great Innovation Ground

If you treat your staff well, you’re going to have plenty of talent flying around, and the people under you are always going to go the extra mile for making sure customers are happy. And when the customers are happy, your profits are going to go up and up! So always keep the idea of allowing your employees to grow in your mind; they won’t treat you as a stepping stone when you put some good trust and the ability for initiative in their hands.

Not to mention, having two or three or four heads on a matter is always going to be better than just your own. So be sure to hand out managerial promotions whenever you see someone show the potential to handle one. And people will be happy to take on longer, harder hours for the time, attention, and money you lay at their doorstep! You have a clear eye for talent, make sure you don’t waste any that walks through your door. 

Treating employees well means a company is always going to have a good business model on their side. If you’re an entrepreneur, make sure you’re playing by these rules above all else. 

The Entrepreneurial Lessons We Can All Learn From Anthony Bourdain

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So many of us were left reeling in the shock that, earlier this year, Anthony Bourdain had shuffled off this mortal coil. But, for all of his ventures in front of the camera, many of us still view him as one of the most authentic chefs to come out of New York City in the last 25 years. Let's not forget, he was one hell of an entrepreneur, and are there any lessons we can learn from this modern master, and apply it to our own restaurant businesses?

Show Respect
If there's anything we can learn from him at face value is that through his show No Reservations, he was incredibly respectful to other cultures. He tried any food that was offered to him, as he knew the families that presented these strange and exotic dishes were unable to afford to eat most of the time. We can apply this to our business acumen by doing very simple things, greet the customers and show them how grateful you are that they've chosen your restaurant. And even if an employee has made a grave error, do you need to fly off the handle about it? Think twice.

Always Be Curious
In life, we need to push ourselves outside of our comfort zone, and he did this with enthusiasm, unlike anyone. He was always keen to try new things, and we should all take this on board when pushing our restaurants further. Taking risks needs to be the fundamental backbone of what we do. And if you don't have a curious mindset, and you've stuck to the same menu for as long as you can remember, practicing curiosity is something we can all do; it's a matter of habit. You can look on to get a few ideas of the habits of curious people, and this is what will help you develop as an entrepreneur.

Learn From Your Mistakes
As he frequently admitted, he was no saint, and whatever the mistakes we all make in life, either on a personal or professional level, taking these opportunities to learn is essential to our growth and development. Whether you have made frequent administrative mistakes, or you've hired the wrong person, there are so many things we can do to build on these mistakes to improve ourselves and our business. Even from the administrative side, you can view for various restaurant-oriented tools to improve your business. If we don't learn from our mistakes, then there is no point in us ever progressing beyond our remit.

Last, but certainly not least, he was someone who enjoyed life. If you find yourself bound by the pressures of running a business, you need to take a step back and look at if you are actually enjoying the ride. This is as important to your sense of self as it is to your culinary passions. You've got to make the most of what you've got, and if you're not happy running your business, you need to change it, so you don't have any regrets. His passing has left a mark on the restaurant world, but there are so many things that we can learn from how he lived his life to improve us and our business.

August 24, 2018

Are Care Homes Failing The Elderly?

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Care homes will be an inevitability for most people. It’s true to say that once you reach a certain age, you may not be able to live independently anymore. Care homes are typically the solution, particularly if you can not afford live in care. However, there is alarming evidence that suggests care homes may not provide the level of support that elderly residents need. New reports have emerged that suggest care homes are falling short where it counts. 

Respite Or Nursing Care?

When you admit an elderly loved one into a care home, there are often two types of care available: respite and nursing care. While one provides complete support, the other operates more as a basic level of care for residents. Many elderly patients are physically able. This means that they do not need constant support and attention. Instead, they can move freely through the care home which is useful, particularly in more deluxe locations where there are facilities like cinema rooms. 

Nursing provides a more intense level of care with constant support, treatment, and aid every hour of the day. 

The issue? It’s in the care home’s best interest to mark most residents as eligible for respite care. This means lower costs and a lower level of employees are needed. It could be a way to keep a budget in check, even if it does leave someone vulnerable. That’s exactly what can happen with residents suffering injuries when they should have been monitored. 

Low Levels Of Staff

Reports have also revealed that staff numbers in even the best care homes are often limited. This again impacts the overall quality of service and means that patients can be neglected in a variety of ways. You might find that your elderly parent is suffering from bedsores which a care home will tell you is perfectly normal. However, this can be avoided if an elderly patient is moved regularly and readjusted. Many employees won’t bother or won’t have the time to do this, particularly if the care home is understaffed. 

Of course, you also might find that staff will refuse to go the extra mile for residents. Particularly, if they are booked in for respite care. Even medical health issues may go unchecked until a relative notices. 

Issues With Communication

There are plenty of residents in care homes who are unable to communicate due to medical conditions such as a stroke or dementia. If a patient is unable to communicate, then this can leave them vulnerable and at risk of neglect and abuse. Since a patient can not communicate effectively, these issues also go unnoticed and unreported. It’s a dangerous situation and neglect or abuse in care homes is a serious problem. These days, it’s common for care homes to have CCTV throughout the premises to ensure that any issues like this can be caught. 

It seems then there are a wide range of issues currently plaguing the care industry. However, with live in care often being too expensive and a growing elderly population there isn’t a solution on the horizon. 

Breaking The Cycle Of Depression

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Depression is the biggest creator of negativity in life. You don’t have to be diagnosed as depressed to suffer from the negativity that depression brings. Being stuck in a terrible situation and experiencing the symptoms of depression is enough to trap you into a cycle that feels unbreakable. It can lead you to fail at meeting the responsibilities that you have in life, make you feel like you’re not enough and that you’re not strong enough to handle the things that life is going to throw at you. Your mind wandering is a dangerous thing, because it can lead you down paths that are too scary to deal with and that you just don’t want to.

The worse you think about yourself, the bigger the cycle of negativity gets. You can go from thinking about not feeling enough to believing the world would be better off without you. This can lead to feeling guiltier and guiltier about your own existence. If you are in a situation in your life that makes you feel vulnerable, whether that’s being unemployed and struggling or a domestic violence victim trying to get out, you’re going to spiral. This cycle of negativity is exceptionally hard to break and while you’re so exhausted by your own emotions, you can feel numb to anything that constitutes moving forward with your life. So, how do you even begin to break that cycle?

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Living by a schedule and in a solid routine can really help you. The people who suffer with depression are not the best at making decisions, because really, they just don’t care. They’re not trying to feel depressed, but they do better with a routine in place. A visual routine chart can make a huge difference to the day, so creating a schedule with alarms alongside it and sticking to it is going to make all the difference to your life. Committing yourself to this schedule is so important for you to be able to break out of the depression that you feel. You’ve got to keep it as simple as possible and your routine should be very basic, very much surrounding your eating, exercise and your daily responsibilities. You need to eat, even when you don’t feel like you can, because food gives you energy to keep going through your day.

Energy is the biggest thing that depletes when you are dealing with depression, so it can be extremely difficult to want to do anything relating to movement or food; because it just seems like too much. You have to hold yourself accountable for your feelings and your actions, because if you don’t, you’re not going to survive it. Own yourself, own your schedule and make it feel right. Once you feel more secure, you can break free from those negative feelings dragging you right down. Set small and manageable goals, and you will be able to hit your achievements far better and far faster. Remind yourself that you CAN do this, and then go and do it.

August 23, 2018

The Problems Facing the US Prison System Today

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We hear a lot about prisons in the US and most of the coverage tends to be negative. There are many reasons for that, but many people still don’t fully understand the specific problems overwhelming the prison system today and why these issues are so pressing. Change in certain areas is certainly going to be required to make the system more functional and sustainable going forward. So keep reading to find out about the biggest problems today.

Falling Crime Rate is Not Resulting in Falling Incarceration Rates

Even though crime rates in America have been falling for a few years, this has not led to any decrease in the number of people being incarcerated in America. This is a strange problem, but one that gets to the heart of many problems in America. Prison target should never come before justice. In a healthy society, a fall in crime would lead to lower rates of people getting locked up.

Racial Disparities

There is a clear disparity between black and white inmates in prisons, with the former being more overrepresented in prisons than the latter. The numbers for incarceration rates along racial lines are worse today in America than in Apartheid South Africa, so this is clearly something that needs to be taken seriously and hopefully addressed. It’s a huge problem though, so it won’t be easy to overcome.

Long Sentences for Nonviolent Crimes

There are now a significant number of people in US prisons serving life sentences for crimes that were completely nonviolent. Many people question the worth and reasoning behind this policy, and whether it’s the right thing to be doing. The belief that only people who’ve committed violent crimes should serve life in prison is growing in popularity. There are many campaigning for the situation to be changed.

Confusing and Inconsistent Bail Bonds System

When people don’t even understand the bail bond system, it’s pretty evident that there are ways the system can improve. There are also some inconsistencies that people have highlighted in recent years. Luckily, there are organizations like Alamo City Bail Bonds that can help people to navigate the process when they’re having difficulties or don’t know where to start. It would help if the system was improved and simplified though.


Because of the skyrocketing prison numbers in America, overcrowding is becoming an issue that’s hard to ignore. There simply aren’t enough places for all the people who are being sent to prison, and this might be linked to harsher rules meaning prison sentences are being given for crimes that wouldn’t previously have warranted such a punishment. Whatever the causes, it’s a problem that needs to be addressed.

The American prison system is not in the healthiest state right now, and even compared to 30 years ago, the situation is far, far worse. It will take root and branch reform to overcome these problems because they’re truly systemic right now, but it remains to be seen whether there is the motivation there to make it happen.

August 20, 2018

How To Find The Fun Again

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Remember when you were a kid and you didn’t have a care in the world? Your primary objective in life was to have fun and be happy, so why does that change as you get older? From dealing with stresses in work to problems in your personal life, can get very tough indeed. Why not step back to your childhood and take some time to have some fun to let your worries disappear, even if only for a short period.

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Here are some great ways to find the fun again.

Play board games
What was your favorite board game as a kid? Operation? Monopoly? Whatever it was, dig it out and get playing. Playing board games has a surprising number of benefits for your health, including helping your memory, reducing blood pressure and reducing stress. Get your friends or family together to enjoy a night of playing classic board games and relax as you find yourself in a familiar routine.

Hop on a skateboard
Were you into skateboarding as a kid? Or maybe it’s something you’ve always wanted to try but never got round to doing? Skateboarding can be a fun hobby and a convenient way to travel - it’s not uncommon to see commuters using their skateboard to get to work! Give yourself a workout and have fun at the same time - Cruiser skateboards are sleek and easy to carry round to help you rediscover your lost youth. Get riding and blast past all of your problems and worries.

Play with puppies
It’s very difficult to be miserable around puppies, as they’re full of energy and keep you on your toes. Even if you can’t get your own puppy right now, there are plenty of shelters who are looking for volunteers to help out or opportunities to help with dog walking. Help a friend or relative to take care of their dog and you’ll soon find your stresses disappearing as you enjoy the company of some four-legged friends.

Watch cartoons
Cartoons were the perfect way to chill out when you were a kid, but when was the last time you watched a cartoon? Whether you rediscover some old classics (YouTube is great for this), or take a look at some new cartoons, you’ll soon be laughing away. Think you’ve grown up out of classic kids cartoons? Try adult-oriented cartoons like Family Guy and The Simpsons instead.

Discover a new hobby
Having hobbies benefits you in many ways, and by finding something that you love to do in your free time, you can enjoy an escape from it all while you get active or creative. From adult coloring books to joining a sports team, there are plenty of options available to you that will help you discover a fun new hobby.

When you’re going through a tough time or need a break from it all, looking for fun things to do can soon lift your spirits. Think of activities that make you laugh and smile and you’ll soon ease your stresses for a much more relaxed and happier you.

August 05, 2018

Overcoming The Tough Moments in Life

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If we could have it all our own way, life would be a series of sweet moments and nothing but love, love, love, but then, this is the real world, so this can’t happen. While you’ll have plenty of life-affirming moments, there’ll also be those incidents and days that have you under the covers, hiding from the world. While it can feel like there’s no path towards a happier life, remember that it’s always possible! We take a look at a few useful tips below.

Be Good To Yourself

Whether your circumstances are a result of your own actions or not, it’s important that you’re good to yourself. People are all too ready to let that inner chimp - their negative voice - do all the talking, but this will only compound your misery. Instead, try to keep any negativity at bay. If they arrive, just let them float away! Beyond that, it’s all about taking care of the essentials in life, like making your bed, eating well, getting enough exercise and sunshine, and so on. You might not feel like doing these things, but they will be helping you. 

Think To The Future

Those tough moments in life are going to feel all-immersive. They’re all you can think about. There is nothing but the here and now, and the circumstances you find yourself in. While you should try to remain as present as possible, also spend a little time thinking about the future. It’s going to come sooner rather than later, and when it does, you’ll be in a better position than now. By making plans for the future, you’ll also have something to look forward to, as well.

Get Support Around You

You can’t be expected to navigate all of life’s tough times by yourself. You’ll need help finding a route to the other side! This can come in the form of friends and family, or professional help. There are law firms that can you help you get justice for the wrongs you’ve suffered, or defend you if you’ve been accused of a crime that could derail your future. If that happens to you, take a look at Martin & Kent; their legal team will ensure that you’ve got an aggressive defense. You don’t have to face your toughest hour all on your own. Get the help you need. 

Advice From the Masters

If you’re in dire straits, it’s worth remembering that you’re not the first person to find themselves in this position. Take a look through history, and you’ll find that there has been plenty of people who faced incredible tough obstacles in life yet managed to overcome them. People today will have a lot to say, but you might just find that the best words come from people who have long gone. You’ll also find plenty of people who managed to pick themselves up off the ground of rock bottom and create a new life for themselves. No matter how tough it gets, there’s always a brighter future waiting. 

4 Things People Assume When They Find Out You're Tee-Total

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Choosing not to drink alcohol is a decision that causes quite the stir for much of the population. In many ways, modern culture revolves around alcohol: the quick drink after work, the celebratory champagne, and the constant mentions of “wine o’clock” that invade social media every evening. 

Strangely - and unlike many other personal decisions - the choice not to drink alcohol tends to create judgment from others; as if they are personally offended by a choice not to partake in this culture. This judgment is usually swiftly followed by one of a number of common assumptions people make when confronted with a non-drinker… 

People assume… you’re a recovering addict 

Drinking culture is so absorbed into our society that this is the immediate, number one assumption made by people when a teetotaler tells them they don’t drink. Most of us know that abstention is a key component of recovering from alcohol addiction, and given that drinking is so widespread, declining an alcoholic beverage is to immediately arouse suspicions. 

This is a problematic response. First and foremost, if someone is in recovery, then this issue doesn’t need drawing attention to. Secondly, if someone is declining a drink for other reasons, they shouldn’t need to be scrutinized for what is a basic personal preference. 

People assume… teetotalers are boring 

There are hundreds of good reasons not to drink alcohol. They may worry about the health impact, have taken the time to learn details here about the prevalence and damage of DUIs, or - most commonly of all - they just don’t like the taste. Yet despite these good reasons, many people associate the choice not to drink with someone being boring - you’re a stuck-in-the-mud, determined to ruin everyone’s fun. 

This isn’t the case, of course; teetotalers are more than capable of having a great time - and what’s more, they’ll be able to remember that they had a great time, too.

People assume… pregnancy

Woman declining a glass of wine? It can’t just be preference - it must be because she’s pregnant! Man declining a beer? He’s being supportive of his pregnant partner who can’t drink! 

It’s worth noting that this assumption can be hurtful as well as incorrect. Say, for example, a couple have been privately struggling with infertility; if declining a drink brings forth the “are you pregnant?” question, this can cause significant distress. 

People assume… that teetotalers are lying 

This is perhaps the strangest assumption of all, and is usually brought forth if someone explains they are not drinking due to not liking the taste. There’s no reason for a person to lie about not wanting to drink; no one is declining a cocktail and then going home to a glass of wine just to spite the person who offered them the cocktail.

While many people enjoy alcohol, others are more sensitive to it, or find the taste bitter, sour, and off-putting. Given that society readily accepts we all have different preferences for food, is it so surprising that we have beverage differences also? 

In conclusion

The choice not to drink alcohol may seem like a bizarre one in modern society, but it is a personal choice, and the above assumptions are just unnecessary. Sometimes, someone just doesn’t want to drink alcohol - and given they are the only person impacted by that decision, this really shouldn’t be the concern of anyone else.

Make A Third Of Your Life Count: What To Do If You're Unhappy With Your Workplace Environment

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We can all feel that workplace malaise from time to time, even if we are in a perfect job. Sometimes, the role can be everything we expect it to be, but there is still that feeling of incompleteness. The workplace environment has a lot to do with your overall enjoyment of the job, even if it is a perfect fit. But when you are unhappy about your workplace environment, is there anything that you can do to make it better?

Get To The Root Cause
Is it just you, or is everyone feeling like this? If it is a common feeling, digging to find the underlying cause will, at least, give you the answer, and from there, you can look at building a solution. In the office, you may all find yourself on edge at the moment, because there are people being fired left, right, and center. It's important to know your rights in this respect, but if the workplace environment is something that feels insecure, and you are dreading going into work every day, especially if the place is unsafe, it's important to voice your concerns to the powers that be. Even a workers comp attorney might be able to provide you with the necessary information if you are working in an environment so unsafe, or many people have suffered accidents. If the root cause is the place itself, don't feel like you are powerless to do anything about it.

Are You Being Challenged Enough?
On the other hand, if it's not the physical location, but the problem lies with you, you may just find yourself at a crossroads, either in life, or in your career. We can all feel bored from time to time, and if this is the case, it's time to address this problem head-on. If you don't feel you are being challenged enough, what can you do about it in your working space? Applying for promotions, or taking on extra duties are two of the most common approaches, but many people are reticent to do more without the pay increase to reflect it. If you are bored and you are looking to challenge yourself, but without promotion, maybe it's time to think about what else you can get out of your work. Maybe change how you go about your working day. Mixing it up, and doing things differently, even though it's the same process, could make it feel entirely different.

How Long Have You Been There For?
And on the other hand, if you feel unhappy with your workplace environment in any manner, is it time to move onto pastures new? Sometimes we can outgrow a place, and the daily grind can get to us. It's more commonly accepted now, changing careers, whereas a few years ago it was considered foolish. And if you are looking for a new challenge, you need to ensure that you are heading to something that will renew your enthusiasm. After all, we spend a third of our lives working, so we have to make it count.

July 27, 2018

Welcoming a New Wonder into the World without Losing Yourself

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Right now is an extremely exciting time in your life; you are getting ready to welcome a new baby in your home. You are worried about a number of different things, but one of the most significant fears you are experiencing is losing yourself and your so-called ‘normal’ life. You want your kids to grow up in a healthy and happy environment for the years to come, so you want to make sure you are perfectly prepared for the change. From helping your pet understand the new baby, to taking time out for yourself; here’s how you can truly enjoy the magical moments of a new born without losing who you really are.

Pets Will Be Able To Sense Everything

It is important to keep giving your pet the same love and attention, even when you have a new born baby at home. They will sense the new tiny human in your life and start to feel lonely and abandoned if you don’t give them any tender loving care. Don’t forget about how important long walks and nutritious foods are to your pet; click here for some amazing and affordable options for pet food. Your dog or cat will be guaranteed to cheer up if they have special treats to look forward to and quality time with you too.
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Get Into a Routine

The quicker you can get into a steady routine with your little one, the more easily you will be able to slot straight into normality. Admittedly, life will never be the same again once you welcome a newborn in your home, but that doesn’t mean that all the rules go out of the window. Give yourself plenty of time to eat, sleep and relax when your baby is resting. Nutritious food is so important for you and your partner, not only to stay healthy for your baby, but also to give you the energy you need to function during these trying times.

Seek Advice from Professionals

If you ever feel overwhelmed, under pressure or depressed after having a baby make sure you seek advice from your doctor. It is completely normal to have these types of feelings, so don’t feel ashamed to speak out. Your problem will be able to be fixed quickly with the correct care from the experts. Similarly, if you are worried about your physical health or your baby’s health ask your doctor for advice too; this will keep your mind at ease.

Take Time Out for Yourself

When you become a parent it is easy to make your child become the centre of your universe. Don’t lose sight of who you were before you had a baby; you can still go on dates with your partner, eat your favourite foods and pursue your lifelong hobbies. Don’t ditch anything in order to make everybody think you are a good parent. Balance your time well and allow yourself a little bit of freedom. This will make you a much more patient parent in the long run.

Welcoming a new baby into the family home is an exciting and scary event, but with these tips you will be in for a smooth and seamless journey to parenthood.

July 18, 2018

Hobby Happy? Here's Why Everyone Should Get A Hobby

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“Do you have any hobbies?” It’s a common question asked when dating, during job interviews, and occasionally when someone finds out you’ve been watching a lot of Netflix. It might seem like an obvious question but many people find there is little time for hobbies outside of work and managing their personal lives. 
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Having a hobby is important, and can help your health and happiness in more ways than you imagine. Why should you get a hobby? Find out more below.

It helps you switch off

Whether you work in a demanding job or you’ve got a busy home life, your hobby can be your escape. Finding something fun to do with your free time will help you to switch off from the stresses of the day and allow you to do something for yourself. Discover hobbies that relax you and help take your mind off things to reduce stress in your life.

It helps improve your health

Hobbies that are more active can be a great way to improve your health and wellbeing. From taking up yoga to writing, there are plenty of hobbies that will improve your health. Many people see exercising as a hobby, and turning your fitness into something you enjoy will help you feel more motivated to do it. Consider joining a fitness class or start running as an enjoyable hobby that will also help you get into shape.

It can become much more than just a hobby

While hobbies might start out as a fun way to pass the time, they can develop into so much more than that. Some hobbies can even be turned into a career. A hobby with a goal, such as restoring an airplane from aircraft parts or putting together a classic car can give you a lot of joy, with a great end result. Hobbies help you to discover your passions, so you never know where yours could lead.

It can help you become more interesting

Having hobbies gives you interests that set you apart from other people, helping you to become a more interesting person. This can improve your social life, your dating life and more - giving you something to talk about and teach others.

It can help you meet new people

If you want to expand your social circle or make friends in a new town, then a hobby can be a great way to meet new people. Hobbies can take you to classes, projects and more where you can encounter people with similar interests. Social interactions and connections are essential for your happiness and wellbeing, so find hobbies that you out and about in your local community.

Finding hobbies that interest and excite you can have all kinds of benefits. Hobbies help you to keep learning as you get older, keeping your mind sharp and broadening your horizons. From meeting new people to helping you stay in shape, they can be a great way to give your health a boost. Could starting a new hobby benefit your life? Start something new today and find out.

July 17, 2018

Life After An Accident: How To Cope

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You’re going about your life, minding your business when the phone buzzes. After answering it, everything changes. This is how it feels when a loved one has been in an accident. At first, it’s about ensuring they are okay and aren’t going anywhere anytime soon. Then, when the dust settles, it’s about adjusting to a new way of life. Their needs come first, but it’s essential for you to regroup too. After all, the mental impact it can have on a person is hard to explain.

Because it’s new and strange and full of emotion, it can be tough to find coping mechanisms. Below are four for the people that need inspiration.

Talk To Them

As harsh as it sounds, it is easy to feel pity for someone who has been struck down in their prime. A loved one that now has to deal with a disability, permanent or temporary, is bound to be in a difficult place. As a result, you may feel as if the universe has been tough on him or her. This can impact your relationship. The key is to communicate. They may be sad, angry and more, yet they probably understand how they need to act to get better. A simple conversation can make you see the light, too.

Stay Busy

Thoughts and emotions intensify when there are moments of clarity. Laid in bed at night with your brain running wild, the severity of the situation will hit home. In the beginning, this is a necessary part of the recovery process because it allows you to deal with your feelings. However, it can get in the way after a while. People that struggle with the emotions are crippled by sadness and grief. Staying busy is an effective way to prevent the brain from obsessing as there won’t be time to evaluate and analyze.

Fight Back

Accidents wreck lives. Therefore, the changes may be costly and not covered by the insurance. For example, a person with a disability will need constant medical attention. Although there is a stigma to it, there is nothing wrong with suing for compensation. The Abelson Law Firm points out family members need fairly compensating because the outcome wasn’t their fault. Plus, the behavior requires stopping as soon as possible to save lives and prevent accidents. A lawsuit causes individuals and companies to evaluate their processes and be better. Just because they’re injured doesn’t mean they can’t fight back.

Focus On The Memories

And not the most recent ones where they are hurt and in pain. Concentrate on the good times when there were joy and happiness on their face. The reason for this is two-fold. Firstly, focusing on the current memories will prolong the grieving process as it will intensify the emotions. Secondly, whether they are gone or aren’t the same, they can live on in your heart. If mental pictures aren’t enough, then print off real ones and start a scrapbook or frame them.

What method do you think is the best one for your journey?

July 09, 2018

Improving Your Kids’ Vacay Experience

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Going on vacation as a family can be a really fun and fulfilling experience, but it can also be highly stressful. There are a lot of things you have to consider when you take the kids on vacation with you, and you need to think about them. Getting away from it all is crucial for recharging the batteries, and this is something you need to work on. The simplest way of making sure you have a memorable and stress-free trip is to ensure your kids have the time of their lives as well. 

The best way of achieving this is to make sure they have everything they need to have for an epic adventure. The more involved and interested your kids are, the better it will be for the future, and the trip will become much less stressful. These are some excellent ideas you can use that are going to help you make the most of your kids’ vacay experience.

Help Them Discover the Ocean
The ocean is such a magnificent and wonderful place for kids to explore, and you should encourage them to spend plenty of time in the sea. Swimming will be heaps of fun for them, but they might also get a lot out of checking out the ocean life, and that means a bit of snorkeling. Check out a Ninja Shark full face mask, as this is the sort of product that would be ideal for enhancing your children’s ocean activities, and making their snorkel experience more fulfilling. 

Let Them Boss a Day!
Another great way of getting them to connect better with the trip is to make sure they get to be in charge for a day! Of course, you are still going to be able to manage this and keep control of it, but there are many ways you can allow your kids to take a more active interest in your vacation. Let them make the decisions about what to do on one of the days. Present them with choices, and let them pick one. That way, you will be in a position to get them more engaged, and they will feel like they are more in charge than they actually are!

Go Self-Catering
One of the big decisions you need to make when traveling as a family is what you’re going to do about food. If you have kids with you, eating out every night is not viable, and it will soon cause the costs to mount up. However, all-inclusive can be an issue too because you then have a time limit you have to observe every day. The best, cheapest and least stressful approach to take is to go self-catering. That way you can provide the kids with what they want when they want, and ensure they are getting healthy mealtimes. 

Taking a vacation as a family is a wonderful way of bonding and spending more quality time together. There are so many excellent places you can go and things you can do while you’re away, and the best thing to do is think about the kids. If you can make sure they have the best possible trip, it will make everything more pleasant and enjoyable. 

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